Archive | February, 2013

My boyfriend’s OKCupid profile is still active

27 Feb

…should I give him the benefit of the doubt?

No.

This goes for all boyfriends or girlfriends whose profiles are still active on OKCupid, still active on PlentyOfFish, still active on Match.com, still active on JDate…

If you have discussed being exclusive, and you know for a fact – have seen proof – that they are still actively responding to people on dating sites, then there is no doubt.

You do not have to give the benefit of the doubt. Romantic comedies are about hilarious screw-ups where the girlfriend was just mistaken because really it was his friend with cancer accessing his account.

“I see you’re still active. I am not prepared to be in an exclusive relationship where I wonder why you are still actively looking for other partners. If you delete your account, give me a call and I’ll think about it.

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